Sunday, February 26, 2006
Series of Sexual Harassments
EXHIBITIONIST
note that this is not the term for a person who handles an exhibition booth
taken from Dictionary.com
ex·hi·bi·tion·ism
1. The act or practice of deliberately behaving so as to attract attention.
2. Psychiatry. A psychosexual disorder marked by the compulsive exposure of the genitals in public.
Inspired by miss iris's latest entry....i began to refresh back my encounters with exhibitionist or known as flasher...
as we were discussing over a brief lunch previously about our experience bumping into a flasher/incidents ...i was surprised iris had never had an encounter...nora had one.....
and me...unluckily i had more than 5 cases.....
first case :
when i was in primary...walking to Kelly's house....near this park where i'm staying known as "Padang Asam" ...i heard somebody calling...and when i turned to look...this middle aged man was cheerfully waving at me with one hand...and the other hand busy stroking and flashing his dick!...i ran as fast as i could to Kelly's house and told her in heavy panting
second case:
somewhat similar to the first one...the only difference is that it happens infront of me and some other friends having an evening chill out at some park....and the dude didn't exactly called us...i accidentally saw him through the bushes....wanking...
third case:
alone again this time around....walking infront of the primary school opposite my house...a car suddenly stopped by infront of me...he unzipped his pants and flashed to me...i pretended i wasn't looking and walked as fast as i could....
fourth case:
by far the worst.....i got into a crampy bus with gee after hours of waiting....as we were in..i was clinging to the pole...infront of me there was this dude ....around 5 mins after the bus moved...he sneakily pinched my breast and gave me an innocently-filthy smile!...i was like "WTF?!!!!!".....silently screaming to myself.......
believe me..i wanted SOooooo much to scream and make the bus driver stop and force him to leave ...instead i just gave him a sharp anger content of stare and turned around...and hinting gee to get out on the very next stop without telling her...she was confused..but obeyed...we finally took a cab ride home...
fifth case:
sunway lagoon.....the public pool....nearby was 3 men ...at first staring and smiling...the next thing i know...one of their filthy legs were between my crotch!...f**cker.....when i looked ...they were still smiling....and again i couldn't scream...literally feeling like my tongue was tied...i just went to another spot...
sixth case:
i got myself a part time job before entering uni...at a retail...selling shoes mostly...but i'm in kidswear section....on the very FIRST day of job....3 men was deliberately looking for kids underwear asking me for certain sizes....and finally asking me questions like "what size r you wearing?".....this time around...i threatened him to leave before i call the guard who's standing nearby....
7th and ongoing cases:
As much as my housemates and I enjoy swimming at our condo pool....we notice the guys too enjoy watching....okay...fine....i too sometimes look at other people swimming from my floor....just to ease the eyes not lebey2....but there's an incident where we notice being secretly watched from behind windows....lama...and when we look back(kasi diorang malu..sebab kantoi)...they don't have a single bit of urge to stop watching(ewah ewah...melancap ke?...)....
even worst just recently....when i was swimming..i notice 2 guys from top floor holding a video cam .....if i want to be denial...yeah...they were just trying to record the scenery...tgk people from the next block punya ampaian...and what not.....ambik la ambik....
ni tak masuk lagi kes2 telefon2 lucah.....ish...
Mental-Muz quoted :
"There will always be suckers around who'll be looking for free/cheap fcuk. Dalam analogi Wongahbeng, mereka adalah spesis kumbang yg takkan mati walaupun diracun dgn racun serangga yg CikPMS usung kemana-mana tu"
the point is....if you have sisters/daughters/friends/girfriends/wives...tell them to beware when they go around...especially young girls as they are prone to these kind of harassments...as these freaks take them as an easy prey....
if they do encounter these kind of things...they should leave some kind of remark such as screaming or reporting to people nearby...show these suckers they can't get away with things as such...and hopefully wouldn't repeat the same thing to other girls....
itu sahaja pesanan dari saya...mangsa gangguan seksual yang telah berubah dari seorang pejalan kaki/penumpang bas/teksi kepada seorang pembawa/pembonceng kereta...if it occurs to me now as it did before...(kalau dlm kereta) ...i would ram into those freaks....pasti mati(tips utk muz)...:P...
note that this is not the term for a person who handles an exhibition booth
taken from Dictionary.com
ex·hi·bi·tion·ism
1. The act or practice of deliberately behaving so as to attract attention.
2. Psychiatry. A psychosexual disorder marked by the compulsive exposure of the genitals in public.
Inspired by miss iris's latest entry....i began to refresh back my encounters with exhibitionist or known as flasher...
as we were discussing over a brief lunch previously about our experience bumping into a flasher/incidents ...i was surprised iris had never had an encounter...nora had one.....
and me...unluckily i had more than 5 cases.....
first case :
when i was in primary...walking to Kelly's house....near this park where i'm staying known as "Padang Asam" ...i heard somebody calling...and when i turned to look...this middle aged man was cheerfully waving at me with one hand...and the other hand busy stroking and flashing his dick!...i ran as fast as i could to Kelly's house and told her in heavy panting
second case:
somewhat similar to the first one...the only difference is that it happens infront of me and some other friends having an evening chill out at some park....and the dude didn't exactly called us...i accidentally saw him through the bushes....wanking...
third case:
alone again this time around....walking infront of the primary school opposite my house...a car suddenly stopped by infront of me...he unzipped his pants and flashed to me...i pretended i wasn't looking and walked as fast as i could....
fourth case:
by far the worst.....i got into a crampy bus with gee after hours of waiting....as we were in..i was clinging to the pole...infront of me there was this dude ....around 5 mins after the bus moved...he sneakily pinched my breast and gave me an innocently-filthy smile!...i was like "WTF?!!!!!".....silently screaming to myself.......
believe me..i wanted SOooooo much to scream and make the bus driver stop and force him to leave ...instead i just gave him a sharp anger content of stare and turned around...and hinting gee to get out on the very next stop without telling her...she was confused..but obeyed...we finally took a cab ride home...
fifth case:
sunway lagoon.....the public pool....nearby was 3 men ...at first staring and smiling...the next thing i know...one of their filthy legs were between my crotch!...f**cker.....when i looked ...they were still smiling....and again i couldn't scream...literally feeling like my tongue was tied...i just went to another spot...
sixth case:
i got myself a part time job before entering uni...at a retail...selling shoes mostly...but i'm in kidswear section....on the very FIRST day of job....3 men was deliberately looking for kids underwear asking me for certain sizes....and finally asking me questions like "what size r you wearing?".....this time around...i threatened him to leave before i call the guard who's standing nearby....
7th and ongoing cases:
As much as my housemates and I enjoy swimming at our condo pool....we notice the guys too enjoy watching....okay...fine....i too sometimes look at other people swimming from my floor....just to ease the eyes not lebey2....but there's an incident where we notice being secretly watched from behind windows....lama...and when we look back(kasi diorang malu..sebab kantoi)...they don't have a single bit of urge to stop watching(ewah ewah...melancap ke?...)....
even worst just recently....when i was swimming..i notice 2 guys from top floor holding a video cam .....if i want to be denial...yeah...they were just trying to record the scenery...tgk people from the next block punya ampaian...and what not.....ambik la ambik....
ni tak masuk lagi kes2 telefon2 lucah.....ish...
Mental-Muz quoted :
"There will always be suckers around who'll be looking for free/cheap fcuk. Dalam analogi Wongahbeng, mereka adalah spesis kumbang yg takkan mati walaupun diracun dgn racun serangga yg CikPMS usung kemana-mana tu"
the point is....if you have sisters/daughters/friends/girfriends/wives...tell them to beware when they go around...especially young girls as they are prone to these kind of harassments...as these freaks take them as an easy prey....
if they do encounter these kind of things...they should leave some kind of remark such as screaming or reporting to people nearby...show these suckers they can't get away with things as such...and hopefully wouldn't repeat the same thing to other girls....
itu sahaja pesanan dari saya...mangsa gangguan seksual yang telah berubah dari seorang pejalan kaki/penumpang bas/teksi kepada seorang pembawa/pembonceng kereta...if it occurs to me now as it did before...(kalau dlm kereta) ...i would ram into those freaks....pasti mati(tips utk muz)...:P...
17 Comments:
wahhh..masih kecik i gumuks laaaaaa....
harmless ...we take those as harmless because nothing was yet to happen during those times...nasib baik...
erkss zuhri...i hope you're not the victim or the culprit of those office sexual harassments eh....kalau i tau..i tibai u!
hmmm .. i think ur gejala kennot read long entries dah menjangkit kat i ler, i think ada baik u put ur stories in pic. senang nak paham, plus ur topic nih, kalau ada gambo lagik menarik ;)
hahaha
bertique...
ya lor..i think gejala keji wongahbeng pun dah terjangkit kat u ek...
ooo notty eh you nak gambar2 plak...
so sape lar nak melakon kan semula watak2 babak2 tersebut?..hehehe
zuhri ambik gambar...i jadi model?..kinkyangel jadi rakan dalam bas?...u jadi the flasher/molester la?
setttt
zuhri
wah...mencabarnyer....
can i send in my resume?...and informal resume as your apprentice?...:)
it's a good thing that you stick to your principles....
we can all be at the top of achievements...and the only thing that sets the difference is our integrity...
:)
My god!!!Wow..I havent see or come around any flashers juz yet as I trust my gut feeling whenever those man seems near to me.., and quickly cabut...from there..
But I have fren who encounter a man who masturbating in his car while looking at gurls passing by near Jusco in Wangsa Maju!!
Hmm..now i know the real deal meaning of exhibitionist..heheh..geeeeeeee..thanks!!
rj
trust me...u did the right thing ....
u don't want to bump into these sick people....the psychological effect is that after having 7 cases...i'm no longer scared...i'm just disgusted....
if you're not able to fight/handle this..just be defensive...being scared/aware is a little help...take care ya..
you thank me..i thank dictionary.com
:)
Yes I think we all should do that. Not flashing la, but educate our loves one on how to handle these situation. I remember reading somewhere about a girl who got molested by a pakistani guy where he drag her up to his room from a public bus and the girl didnt say a thing. I think she was confused and shocked to say a word. Poor girl.
and yes, I rasa kalau kena langgar ngan kereta ada can nak mati jugak but, kenapa tips itu utk saya?
muz
hehehe..sebab u kata...ini orang yg takkan pupus...tapi kalau kita jumpe..langgar kasi mati...pupus kot....sebab yg lain turut tak brani buat...
nak swim pon tak senang skang ni.. hish!!!
jom cari aktiviti lain...yang tidak menarik minat orang utk mengintai...
erkksss...masak2 menarik jugak....tetapi....nanti u all tak mengintai ...tapi mengecek time kitorang tgh masak...tak best aaa...blom sempat hidang....kapushh!!..habis...
sblm aktiviti msk2 dilangsungkan kene ada aktiviti kemas mengemas dapur. malas la...hehe..
sori,aku terdelete tag yg ko bg aku tu. ada kesilapan teknikal sket td.hehe.. takpe kan? as long as aku dah buat.. ngehehe..
hahah..
abang zuhri...i'm like the "naked chef" kat travel and living tu...not literally naked ok...style of cooking..campak3 ...jadi makanan...hehehe edible food eh...:D
ni apsal dr intip mengintip, flash-mengflash jadi masak memasak nih? korang ni kan suka tau lari dari topik perbincangan.
zuhri, aku hehe mmg kuat mkn. tapi aku pun suka masak ;). kalau sesapa nak kawin nnt, tak de org nak masak aku leh masak :P
ala .. aku pun dah terikut kome semua. komen tak mengikut tajuk.
btw nina, i jeles tau u sebut2 nama riemann kat blog i.
ahaks...i oso dunno...sebab maybe diorang ade terasa sedikit stim kot bace citer nih...so mereka pun teringat ikan masak stim...
so terus la masuk topik masak2 kot...
wahhh...betik bukak katering ke apa nih?..hehehe
jeles ke?...aiseh2...ok sorry2...silap...
:P
then i sebut mr. algebra la...
ish idok ler.
i sebenarnya buat arts. but i love cooking then i realised cooking is one form of arts too - from there i developed my interest in cooking la.
my way? senang, do with what ever you have. hahaha
jap apsal crita psal masak2 nih?
aargghhh!!!!
korang suker tau lari topik.
zuhri
u like sapekgetik?...easy job..no problemo...hehehe
malaysian spaghetti is quite common la kat sini...i don't think most of us have really tasted the real pure spaghetti...masham...tak boleh terima tekak some org kita...so the altered malay spaghetti is nice jugak...
i LOVEEEE pedas food!
betik
that's exactly what it is...arts.....i hate following direct recipes...
sape setart....zuhri larrr!
hehehe
jenmarieee....didn't notice this comment..
welcome sweets....
u don't have a blog?
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